Alzheimer’s / dementia care involves specialized training that emphasizes flexibility, embracing the here and now of the patient experience, and being willing to go with the flow to preserve familiarity and comfort.
Allwel's experience in providing service to individuals with traumatic brain injuries dates back to 2000. Our experience has helped us understand the challenges of memory loss and impulsive behaviors. This makes us a perfect fit for providing understanding care for your loved one who has Alzheimer's / dementia. Our staff use the same gentle approach to make sure that our patients are attending to their personal needs and have established routines, as we know that familiarity provides comfort to our patients. We strive to provide familiarity and routine through our staffing process as well.
Our team of care navigators, nurses, and social workers are trained professionals who can provide additional services to manage beyond the physical needs of your loved one. We can also assist with the time sensitive and financial responsibilities that are associated with living in their own home. These needs can include shopping, paying bills, managing medication refills, scheduling important appointments, or simply getting out for visiting and social activities.
Remember – caring for an individual involves taking care of the person and taking care of the caregiver. The more support you’re able to bring in, the better you will be able to help your loved one.
Alzheimer’s / dementia affects memory, thinking, language, judgment, and behavior. Later on, it also leads to declining physical health. Alzheimer’s and dementia are often termed together, as Alzheimer’s is the most common type of dementia. There are many forms of dementia which is a general term for all the different symptoms of memory loss, declining motor skills, changes in behaviors, and more. The approach to care is generally the same, regardless of type of dementia.
We believe in having a real conversation about what to expect, so please excuse our frankness.
Many of the challenges of behavioral outbursts and negative emotions can be prevented by establishing and keeping to a consistent routine. Same wake-up time, same time for breakfast, keeping things in the house in the same places, same times for and types of activities. This is very important. Also, having your loved one do as much for themselves as possible is equally important. Just because a person cannot do one activity does not mean they cannot do another. Experiment and try again often. Again, what can be done one day may not be able to another, but the reverse can also be true. Just keep in mind what will be safe and what will not. Incorporate as many visitors and opportunity for social interaction as possible, but not so much as to overwhelm.
It goes without saying that patience is the essence of all communication as your loved one's physical and mental abilities decline. The further along your loved one is in the progress of their dementia, the more simple the communication should be, such as limiting to yes or no questions versus offering open ended choices like "what do you want to do today?". Limit ideas to one at a time. Remember that the speed at which information is processed declines, and there will be a point where even the simplest tasks will have to be broken down into each component. You will have to be the person who recognizes that the conversation is becoming futile. Feeling frustrated will be normal. Losing patience will happen. Take a break. Recharge. Ask for help from your backup. It is important to meet your loved one where they are at presently in communication abilities, not to argue your point or try to correct them. If, for example, they tell you it's 1962, then accept their present belief and move onto another topic rather than trying to convince them it's the present year. Arguing or correcting will not improve their quality of life. The more you attempt to disprove their point, the worse they will feel about their own comprehension and self.
This is a journey so pace yourself. Don’t be embarrassed or feel less involved by asking for support when and where you need it. Remember, the dignity and love you are preserving for your loved one, makes all the effort and challenges worthwhile. Allwel will be here to let you know how your loved one is doing when you are not there. We do this by letting you know the details of your loved one's day, activities and appointments. You will receive a daily check in and a weekly report. This will give you a chance to not just review your loved one's day but also information to use to ask them questions and discuss their activities.